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Candace Parker Proved She’s A Pro In Defense Debate

“Watching Candace navigate that space and time made me reflect on just how delicate those situations can be on that desk.”

Stan Norfleet



For those of us not quite on the A-list yet, working alongside certain celebrities or sports icons can be intimidating or feel restrictive. Nonetheless, as analysts and co-hosts, we owe it to ourselves, as well as our personal brands, to inject our own thoughts and comments into the conversation. Yet, the right timing and delivery can make all the difference in avoiding unnecessary on-air conflict, while ultimately affording the best chance for our intended message to be considered by those aforementioned superstars.

I was reminded of this delicate balance while watching Inside The NBA Tuesday night as the lovely Candace Parker, highly decorated in her own right, debated the living legend simply known as Shaq on issues of contemporary defensive strategy. Perhaps they have a healthy brother-sister dynamic off-air, however, there was clearly potential for a bit of tension in that moment. 

I was very impressed at the sheer confidence, wit, and grace in which Candace showed while articulating her point to the big fella – especially considering him making a reference to the championship ring he won alongside D-Wade, who was sitting to Candace’s left, as a means to buffer his argument. Candace could’ve very easily retorted that she too is a World Champion, as well as a former WNBA Finals and league MVP! However, she chose to tactfully state her position on the matter in an effort to move the conversation along. She had proven her point (co-signed by D-Wade) and we all knew it.

Bravo Candace!

Why the potential for tension? Because superstars, like the rest of us, have a sense of pride and an ego. No one wants to be embarrassed or “schooled” live on national television, let alone someone with Shaq’s wealth and fame. After all, there are reputations at stake each and every time we go live. There’s nothing wrong with being considerate that some names burn brighter on the marquee than others. Such is life. 

Watching Candace navigate that space and time made me reflect on just how delicate those situations can be on that desk. Different types of personalities present themselves in host and analyst roles alike. As I see it, there is no “standard operating procedure” when teaming with someone who has “superior” status or popularity. Some aren’t threatened by being respectfully challenged; others not so much. That’s why it’s absolutely critical to get to know one another off-air as much as possible. The simplest off-camera interactions can go a long way in building rapport and ultimately avoiding contentious public moments, which typically makes for an unsatisfactory viewing experience. 

Fortunately for me, I was blessed with a national TV partner that was super secure, and did not mind sharing the spotlight (Miss you Coach-B!). And no, I don’t think for one second Shaq took issue with Candace pushing back on his takes. That said, obviously Tommy Bowden is not on Shaq’s level of notoriety, however, in the college football space, the Bowden name speaks for itself. In those days sharing the desk, it was paramount that I be extremely mindful of not only how my comments would impact the audience, but the Bowden name as well. 

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Anyhow, not getting the last word in, or the loudest word, when debating “the headliner” doesn’t mean we lose. We have to be more mentally tough than to think like that. In those potentially contentious moments I choose to chalk-it-up to diplomacy. I’m not much into bragging rights. I’m about doing whatever is in the best interest of the program, as long as there’s a healthy level of respect demonstrated both ways. 

Whether you’re in the minority by race, gender, experience, or social media following, as a talent, never be intimidated or shy away from your position on a subject matter! At the same time, be mindful; situational awareness is different than cowardice. Better understanding those you share the desk with will perhaps provide parameters for avoiding unnecessary public spats. This week, Candace Parker provided a fantastic example as to how we might navigate uneasy moments such as this. Apparently the cliché still rings true; it’s not just what you say, but how you say it. On Tuesday night Candace’s decorum spoke volumes; if you knew what to listen for.

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Being Wrong On-Air Isn’t A Bad Thing

…if you feel yourself getting uncomfortable over the fact that you were wrong, stop to realize that’s your pride talking. Your ego. And if people call you out for being wrong, it’s actually a good sign.




In the press conference after the Warriors won their fourth NBA title in eight years, Steph Curry referenced a very specific gesture from a very specific episode of Get Up that aired in August 2021.

“Clearly remember some experts and talking heads putting up the big zero,” Curry said, then holding up a hollowed fist to one eye, looking through it as if it were a telescope.

“How many championships we would have going forward because of everything we went through.”

Yep, Kendrick Perkins and Domonique Foxworth each predicted the Warriors wouldn’t win a single title over the course of the four-year extension Curry had just signed. The Warriors won the NBA title and guess what? Curry gets to gloat.

The funny part to me was the people who felt Perkins or Foxworth should be mad or embarrassed. Why? Because they were wrong?

That’s part of the game. If you’re a host or analyst who is never wrong in a prediction, it’s more likely that you’re excruciatingly boring than exceedingly smart. Being wrong is not necessarily fun, but it’s not a bad thing in this business.

You shouldn’t try to be wrong, but you shouldn’t be afraid of it, either. And if you are wrong, own it. Hold your L as I’ve heard the kids say. Don’t try to minimize it or explain it or try to point out how many other people are wrong, too. Do what Kendrick Perkins did on Get Up the day after the Warriors won the title.

“When they go on to win it, guess what?” He said, sitting next to Mike Greenberg. “You have to eat that.”

Do not do what Perkins did later that morning on First Take.

Perkins: “I come on here and it’s cool, right? Y’all can pull up Perk receipts and things to that nature. And then you give other people a pass like J-Will.”

Jason Williams: “I don’t get passes on this show.”

Perkins: “You had to, you had a receipt, too, because me and you both picked the Memphis Grizzlies to beat the Golden State Warriors, but I’m OK with that. I’m OK with that. Go ahead Stephen A. I know you’re about to have fun and do your thing. Go ahead.”

Stephen A. Smith: “First of all, I’m going to get serious for a second with the both of you, especially you, Perk, and I want to tell you something right now. Let me throw myself on Front Street, we can sit up there and make fun of me. You know how many damn Finals predictions I got wrong? I don’t give a damn. I mean, I got a whole bunch of them wrong. Ain’t no reason to come on the air and defend yourself. Perk, listen man. You were wrong. And we making fun, and Steph Curry making fun of you. You laugh at that my brother. He got you today. That’s all. He got you today.”

It’s absolutely great advice, and if you feel yourself getting uncomfortable over the fact that you were wrong, stop to realize that’s your pride talking. Your ego. And if people call you out for being wrong, it’s actually a good sign. It means they’re not just listening, but holding on to what you say. You matter. Don’t ruin that by getting defensive and testy.


I did a double-take when I saw Chris Russo’s list of the greatest QB-TE combinations ever on Wednesday and this was before I ever got to Tom Brady-to-Rob Gronkowski listed at No. 5. It was actually No. 4 that stopped me cold: Starr-Kramer.

My first thought: Jerry Kramer didn’t play tight end.

My second thought: I must be unaware of this really good tight end from the Lombardi-era Packers.

After further review, I don’t think that’s necessarily true, either. Ron Kramer did play for the Lombardi-era Packers, and he was a good player. He caught 14 scoring passes in a three-year stretch where he really mattered, but he failed to catch a single touchdown pass in six of the 10 NFL seasons he played. He was named first-team All-Pro once and finished his career with 229 receptions.

Now this is not the only reason that this is an absolutely terrible list. It is the most egregious, however. Bart Starr and Kramer are not among the 25 top QB-TE combinations in NFL history let alone the top five. And if you’re to believe Russo’s list, eighty percent of the top tandems played in the NFL in the 30-year window from 1958 to 1987 with only one tandem from the past 30 years meriting inclusion when this is the era in which tight end production has steadily climbed.

Then I found out that Russo is making $10,000 per appearance on “First Take.”

My first thought: You don’t have to pay that much to get a 60-something white guy to grossly exaggerate how great stuff used to be.

My second thought: That might be the best $10,000 ESPN has ever spent.

Once a week, Russo comes on and draws a reaction out of a younger demographic by playing a good-natured version of Dana Carvey’s Grumpy Old Man. Russo groans to JJ Redick about the lack of fundamental basketball skills in today’s game or he proclaims the majesty of a tight end-quarterback pairing that was among the top five in its decade, but doesn’t sniff the top five of all-time.

And guess what? It works. Redick rolls his eyes, asks Russo which game he’s watching, and on Wednesday he got me to spend a good 25 minutes looking up statistics for some Packers tight end I’d never heard of. Not satisfied with that, I then moved on to determine Russo’s biggest omission from the list, which I’ve concluded is Philip Rivers and Antonio Gates, who connected for 89 touchdowns over 15 seasons, which is only 73 more touchdowns than Kramer scored in his career. John Elway and Shannon Sharpe should be on there, too.

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Money Isn’t The Key Reason Why Sellers Sell Sports Radio

I started selling sports radio because I enjoyed working with clients who loved sports, our station, and wanted to reach fans with our commercials and promotions.

Jeff Caves



Radio Sales

A radio salesperson’s value being purely tied to money is overrated to me. Our managers all believe that our main motivation for selling radio is to make more money. They see no problem in asking us to sell more in various ways because it increases our paycheck. We are offered more money to sell digital, NTR, to sell another station in the cluster, weekend remotes, new direct business, or via the phone in 8 hours. 

But is that why you sell sports radio?

In 2022, the Top 10 highest paying sales jobs are all in technology. Not a media company among them. You could argue that if it were all about making money, we should quit and work in tech. Famous bank robber Willie Sutton was asked why he robbed twenty banks over twenty years. He reportedly said,” that’s where the money is”. Sutton is the classic example of a person who wanted what money could provide and was willing to do whatever it took to get it, BUT he also admitted he liked robbing banks and felt alive. So, Sutton didn’t do it just for the money.

A salesperson’s relationship with money and prestige is also at the center of the play Death of a Salesman. Willy Loman is an aging and failing salesman who decides he is worth more dead than alive and kills himself in an auto accident giving his family the death benefit from his life insurance policy. Loman wasn’t working for the money. He wanted the prestige of what money could buy for himself and his family. 

Recently, I met a woman who spent twelve years selling radio from 1999-2011. I asked her why she left her senior sales job. She said she didn’t like the changes in the industry. Consolidation was at its peak, and most salespeople were asked to do more with less help. She described her radio sales job as one with “golden handcuffs”. The station paid her too much money to quit even though she hated the job. She finally quit. The job wasn’t worth the money to her.

I started selling sports radio because I enjoyed working with clients who loved sports, our station, and wanted to reach fans with our commercials and promotions. I never wanted to sell anything else and specifically enjoyed selling programming centered around reaching fans of Boise State University football. That’s it. Very similar to what Mark Glynn and his KJR staff experience when selling Kraken hockey and Huskies football.  

I never thought selling sports radio was the best way to make money. I just enjoyed the way I could make money. I focused on the process and what I enjoyed about the position—the freedom to come and go and set my schedule for the most part. I concentrated on annual contracts and clients who wanted to run radio commercials over the air to get more traffic and build their brand.

Most of my clients were local direct and listened to the station. Some other sales initiatives had steep learning curves, were one-day events or contracted out shaky support staff. In other words, the money didn’t motivate me enough. How I spent my time was more important. 

So, if you are in management, maybe consider why your sales staff is working at the station. Because to me, they’d be robbing banks if it were all about making lots of money.  

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Media Noise: BSM Podcast Network Round Table



Demetri Ravanos welcomes the two newest members of the BSM Podcast Network to the show. Brady Farkas and Stephen Strom join for a roundtable discussion that includes the new media, Sage Steele and Roger Goodell telling Congress that Dave Portnoy isn’t banned from NFL events.

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